Best off to let any potential partner know what you want out of relationships right away..especially when it is dealing with open relationships and poly. To let someone invest in you and become vulnerable first without them knowing is selfish and hurtful...maybe even manipulative.
Being up front is the best way to find something with less drama and more health..more FUN!
Playing the Game of Life with Monopoly rules.
Monogamy might just be in my genes
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