Originally Posted by Derbylicious
If it wasn't for the friendshop between the kids and the heartache that it is causing my son I could just let it be. The kids complicate things. I've pretty much let go of things for my own sake and I'm branching out to other friends and other support systems. I'm a grownup and I (kind of) get it, the kids don't though, all they know is that an almost sibling is gone for no real reason.
Yeah, I get that. Tough one Derby. Not much you can do though is there? Do you pursue and run the risk as seeming needy and stalkerish or do you do your best to broaden the friendship base of your children in other ways and with other people? I know that is not ideal but eventually something has to be decided upon. This sucks for sure