Originally Posted by SeekerOfTruth
One question I do have, though...what's the best way to proceed from here?
Maybe everyone is being a little harsh. I mean I agree with them mostly. But that doesn't mean you can't have a healthy relationship with your girlfriend. But in order for that to work you need to sit down and have a long conversation about new ground rules. She might not know how badly she is treating you. She might just be scared and hurt. We all have times in our past where we treated people we loved badly simple because we didn't know any better.
I would give her a chance personally. It sounds like she cares for you. Give her a chance to grow to face her fears and bad behavior. But if this shit keeps happening... just get out.