Thread: Are we doomed?
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Old 06-08-2010, 03:40 AM
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Originally Posted by SchrodingersCat View Post
It's inevitable that some of your poly relationships will fail, just like all of your past monogamous relationships failed. If every relationship worked out on the first try, we would all be married to that boy/girl from grade 8
Very well said!! For me, polamory has given me and my partners more confidence that we can enjoy long term connections. We feel that monogamy put too much pressure on our relationships and now that we can enjoy multiple loves, our relationships seem more likely to continue to grow and evolve.
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