Originally Posted by catbird
She was very shocked, took a while to recover, finally came to me to assure me that she did love me. I came to the realization that we speak two different love languages. We need to learn each other's native tongue.
You might want to lookup and read on communication styles and love styles. Both combined may tell you what you both want and how you both communicate.
...I would recommend a book but don't know any. I am a google geek
Best of luck