I think we are more or less done with the swinger world. Our plan now is to slowly and gently come out as poly to our friends and the people we care about, and be playful and flirtatious, and take the time to see if new relationships develop organically. Sometimes that seems like a tall order, but we're in no real hurry... Hell, it can be incredibly hard sometimes for mono people make connections too.
We just want to be moving in the right direction... The taste of the joy we felt with the plurality of multiple partner love and sex, is a bright beacon in the future.