I think I would just wait this out for now and enjoy the playfulness and "better than ever" part. You have a lot going on and a young child. There is no rush, you are marrying for the rest of your lives right? So, take it slow and deal with what is going on now in life... when a time comes that life is more settled than maybe re-addressing will seem like a good idea.
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