Originally Posted by vandalin
Cajun and I have had more talks recently about what we want and I am still interested in opening our relationship, preferably to a poly end. But even opening out relationship would need some explanation to her as if/when overnights ever happen, they would definitely need to be explained as I don't normally stay away overnight without Cajun.
Ohhhhhhhhhh !!! ???
So you haven't actually made the leap yet ? I assumed you had.
I might think a more relative conversation in that case might just start with something like a reference to some article you read in a paper, saw on TV etc and that intrigued you and made a lot of sense. Then you might follow up by saying you and Cajun have actually been talking about it and find that you both see some potential in it.
See what kind of reaction that brings etc.........