Originally Posted by jkelly
Honestly, I think that the "sex messes up friendships" thing is largely a myth. I suspect that a number of people who say "we probably should have just been friends" are conveniently forgetting that there was some kind of attraction going on that created the friendship in the first place.
As far as guides go, I have nothing.
Simple scenario problem with assuming that
person 1 - wants sex with person 2
person 2 - thinks its a grand idea
Person 1 and 2 are friends.
they both start bumping pelvises.
Person 2 falls in love with person 1
person 1 doesn't want to loose the sex
Series of many uncomfortable nights, rebound days and months...turn into the two people not being able to talk. Friendship disolves.
More common than you think