Originally Posted by YGirl
"Hon, there's someone I care deeply for but you mean so much and I would never want to jeopardize what we have. But because you are my wife and I respect you as an individual, I must tell you this because I think you might have an idea already and I would never want you to think I was cheating on you."
That is a beautifully honest and touching approach. It is the best way of conveying this I have heard. I'm extremely mono but I can see the caring and legitimate concern in this statement. Did you come up with this Ygirl?