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Old 06-05-2010, 05:54 PM
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Originally Posted by Ariakas View Post
hmmm Something else to consider, I can see this as a little reversal. Your primary thinks he is good enough for you, he thinks the secondary isn't. By choosing the secondary he doesn't like or think is up to par, you are in a way reducing his value.

Look at it this way

girl 1 - physically hot, beautiful
Boy - is the poly fulcrum
girl 2 - not traditionally beautiful, smart, witty and holds up to conversation

Boy likes girl 2, but girl 1 automatically takes his interest in a less beautiful girl as a slight to her...

Just something to consider. It may not be beauty, it could be brains, kind whatever.
yes i think that is true...he sees him self associated with my secondary hence he feels lowered to his level and grouped in with his crowd. Yes they are very different, buy my secondary is not a bum

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