assuming YOU GUYS are really committed to poly living.
That's why we've waited this long to say anything. There just hasn't been a good reason to rock the boat. I'd hate to leave it to the "last minute" but I don't want to possibly upset her needlessly.
Cajun and I have had more talks recently about what we want and I am still interested in opening our relationship, preferably to a poly end. But even opening out relationship would need some explanation to her as if/when overnights ever happen, they would definitely need to be explained as I don't normally stay away overnight without Cajun.
Anyway, I do have copies of Ethical Slut and am already half way through Opening Up (got it Wednesday) plus she can check out Xeromag too.