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Old 06-05-2010, 04:54 AM
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great quote...there really is a release once you allow others their freedom. My secondary had someone visit him recently who he was interested in and it was my first time letting someone else be free...and yes it was awkward for me, but not to the point where i was hurt. After that person went back home, it was a weird positive sense of closeness and contentment. Usually seeing other people ends a relationship, but when that fear is gone, it feels so good to be free and know you can enjoy others and not lose the person you are interested in as well. And it's nice not to feel that control over yourself as well. You're not controlled by another person, nor are you controlled by your negative emotions.
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