Originally Posted by WalksThroughFire35
I am trying non-monogamy for the first time and have yet to experience her actually having sex with someone else. .
What about you? Maybe focusing on the excitement of having sex with some one you are interested could help?
Probably crappy advice but why not get lost in the positives? Get online and get out there!
If you are living hell every time I would however consider that self abuse and suggest you perhaps find someone who is better suited for you. Stay healthy!
Non-monogamy is a two way street...if you're both on board why not move forward together instead of following her lead?