Originally Posted by Acroxander
I love her far too much to ask her to stick around in an arrangement that will eat her up inside.
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That is an great outlook
Just don't make the decision to soon for her
would be my advice. Redpepper used to have moments where she thought I would make a decision to split up for "her own good". I did in fact have those thoughts and admittedly still have extrememly brief moments of feeling that.
Hope it all goes well