I don't understand pyxie, you are not bi but you want to share? If you were looking for a woman to share it would mean physically. You also mention that you would want to be friends with her. Do you mean that you would prefer your man find a woman that you like. Two entirely different things.
I am wondering if you have read much on poly yet, like on here. I suggest that you do so as to pick up an understanding of what poly is about. I hope you read this post and realize there is not meant to be a tone. Just for the sake of keeping confusion at bay and for your own interest it might help. There are many ways to be poly, not just your friends.
Anyone want to be friends on Facebook?
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