Originally Posted by catbird
If one of your threads already discusses this well, I would be most grateful to have it pointed out. I rather gather that cheating on one's spouse isn't what you guys do. If I don't have a place here I understand. Perhaps I need a site for marital problems. I don't know anymore, except that I want love.
Ideally this isn't something anyone does in any relationship. But as with any relationship, it CAN happen and does.
As for belonging, sc is right. Everyone has a place here. Its a discussion group about polyamory. Period. I have in the last little while questioned my being on here. As I am not in a current poly relationship. But I keep coming back to the fact that I have in fact and do in fact romantically love multiple people...regardless of my current relationship status
One thing you will learn on this site, regardless of your status is great methods of communication, which you can hopefully use in your life.