Originally Posted by redpepper
heh, you are so cute
All I can say really is that the whole thought on this for me, makes me feel incredably fortunate. I am not the sort of person that just tolerates. Life is too short and I have to say that I would end everything and find something that works if it came to just tolerating someone else.
On the other hand, if I was the one being lassoed I would find it very difficult. I would hope someone would smack me up side the head with a dose of reality if I were in that much NRE. Or maybe my primary relationship needs ot end and they are justified in pressuring me to end it.... ?
I don't believe that anyone is ever justified in pressuring anyone to do anything. If anything I would hope that if I were in a situation where someone saw that my primary relationship needed to end that they would very kindly tell me that I had issues there that needed to be worked on and that they would be there for me to talk to. I think that pressuring someone to end a relationship, even an unhealthy one, just leads to resentment and problems in the relationship between the pressure-ee and the pressure-er.