Originally Posted by LovingRadiance
But I do like the points she makes a lot.
I'd have to say that I disagree, at least to some degree. It appears she's trying to force a particular approach on everybody, and that's simply not practical, for starters, and dysfunctional on a deeper level. One size does not fit all, square pegs vs round holes, and all that.
When speaking of various forms of non-monogamy...it ain't poly if you're just fucking around.
While polyamory, open relationships, and swinging are all distinctly different approaches to non-monogamy, they are not mutually exlusive. Folks can, and some do, engage in more than one of them at a time--and it's all good.