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Old 05-30-2010, 06:38 AM
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Default For me....

I do think in terms of primary/secondary, so online I would explain it in that manner, so people would know who I am refering to.

In real life, When we had poly dynamics going on, I had a 'hubby' and a 'hunny'.

I also found saying 'boyfriend' or 'girlfriend' had a special uniqueness to it.

To me, the bf/gf label, has a fun innocence or purity to it, that stops people from concluding ; ' fuck buddy '.

Unlike other pet names, which might seem to vague.
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