ok first -
You two are so sweet
And Mono - I totally understand how you feel. This makes me realize how broad the spectrum of relationships actually is. I definitely feel that I want more of an emotional connection with someone I have a sexual relationship with, but also feel I could have that with more than one person. However, I have been where you are too, and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that! My learning is expanding greatly as a realize how different we can all relate to people and how different relationships can be shaped to suit our desires and needs.
It's really funny to me that I never realized there was not only more than one way to have a romantic relationship, but several!
It is really quite eye-opening that this can be done with integrity and honesty.
And for everyone - let me add that I appreciate all of your honesty with this. It really helps me to see real people in this forum.