RP-have you ever done an online search for D/s or BDSM blogs?
I quit looking at hte various BDSM sites-and started looking at people's personal blogs.
I learned SO MUCH MORE about diffferent people's ways of dealing with their personal version of BDSM. There are S&M blogs, D/s blogs, Master/slave blogs, Discipline blogs etc.
Each one is very personal and addressed the specific details of that person's life in regards to the topic. Gets much deeper into emotions, needs, expectations on a personal level.
It was so interesting reading the different perspectives. VERY educating.
Pretty much made it OBVIOUS to me that BDSM relationships of any type are JUST as individual as Poly relationships are. Each one is fit JUST for the people in it.