Poly is about love. Not about not having love but expanding it.
Originally Posted by redpepper
Poly is about love. Not about not having love but expanding it. If you were to identify as poly then you would need to have the best possible relationship with your wife before finding more partners. Poly is not about filling in the gaps but expanding what you have already.
It sounds like you are ready to move on from your marriage. Not easy, but necessary sometimes in order to live to our best possible potential. Yes, a site for marriage advice might be better, but you also may find, in reading here, that you will learn something of what you should do next in your life.
Well, there you have it. You answered my question-I wondered....will something like this have worked for the ex and I?
Looking at it that way....no, it wouldn't have worked....but then again...I do love the ex...but the sexual desire isn't there, not like it is with most people. And it's not him. So....dunno. But the-what?-emotional closeness was there at one point.
If that makes sense...