My advice echoes rp's, er...red pepper's. You need to work on your main relationship and make it WHOLE, and then you can worry about accepting other relationships into your guys' life. Think about your priorities man, what you really want. You want poly, but what you really want is great relationships! Well, how do you have great relationship? The answer to that question, will lead you to salvation!!! :P
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