Originally Posted by redpepper
to me loving others and allowing them to love me is like a reflection in a mirror, they reflect back to me everything I love about myself and things I don't... it makes me every grow and learn about myself and others.
"To me, the real question is, Why would anyone want to date me if I'm just using them to make myself happy?" good question Schrodingerscat! *ponder ponder ponder*
Because ideally...ok maybe not ideally...you are both using each other for happiness and strength. If it is a one sided need than there could be problems if not discussed.