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Old 05-27-2010, 04:50 AM
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Originally Posted by Goodwife91325 View Post
I will admit I was more into the "sport fucking" until I met someone who rocked my world and demanded more of me in terms of relationship and committment. Unfortunately after 6 months it was just not healthy for me and ended
I always have a problem with "demands" as such. It's perfectly fine for a person to say "I have such-and-such needs and they are not being met in this relationship" and I don't think of that as demanding. The key part is what comes next: Do they "demand" that you change in order to meet their needs, or do they just tell you that if their needs are not met, they must end the relationship?

So good to hear you got yourself out of that unhealthy situation and were able to find something better! Welcome to the forum!
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