Originally Posted by XYZ123
keep in mind that hubby and I knew eachother for seven years before the benifits began.
xyz123-see now to me this was an "intimate friends" situation, rather than "friends with benefits."
redsiren-it sounds like you are on a great path! It's so great that you are meeting your new partners lover as soon as you can. yes I can see how you would be nervous, but it is very commendable that you are feeling it and facing it.
keep at it girl! you are on a good path... if nothing else you will learn a whole lot and be stronger than ever and more determined to get what you need out of life.