Originally Posted by Karelia
She lied to me repeatedly, withdrew emotionally whenever she was stressed out (which was nearly always) and sometimes let her jealousy (not relationship related) make her say nasty things to me. She didn't own her mistakes and she has serious mental health issues she must address if she ever wants to be happy.
Sounds like you are better off without her. You can love someone deeply and still walk away. I wouldn't have stayed with her for a month much less a year, but we do crazy things in the name of "love".....hope there's a lesson in there somewhere!!