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Old 05-25-2010, 09:01 PM
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Originally Posted by DD123 View Post
my gf and I have talked about something like this and her "primary" relationship is with herself, just like my "primary" relationship is with myself. We havne to be secure in ourselves before we can enrich eachother.
I am my own primary also and I like it that way.
That's one of the things that attracts me to the poly lifestyle is that I don't have to have a primary lover! Yeah!!!
The key to life is in being fully engaged and peacefully detached simultaneously and authentically in each moment.
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