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Old 05-25-2010, 07:51 PM
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Originally Posted by ksandra View Post
We sat down last night and made a written list of rules that we have that apply just to him, just to me or to both of us and then categorized them as essential (like safe sex) , okay for now, annoying and unacceptable (the curfew I have to be home by) and we are going to start working on them now and I think the fear of it will be really essential for this.
Remember to try to work on the reason WHY of the rule, rather than just work on whether it is really necessary or not.

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