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Old 05-25-2010, 03:30 PM
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OK some questions for you, in order to better understand your needs:

Must this person be only in a relationship with you? Would they be free to have other outside partners, if the right person came along?

You said that the person must have a "connection" with both - are they expected to have an intimate relationship with both of you (i.e. do they need to be bisexual) for this to work? or would a close friendship with the one and a romantic relationship with the other be fine?

You mentioned them living with you - how soon after meeting a person would you imagine this person moving in?

Must the person be female? You wrote "lady" in the title, but would the right guy fit the bill?
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