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Old 05-25-2010, 03:19 PM
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Yes, thank you that really does help. We sat down last night and made a written list of rules that we have that apply just to him, just to me or to both of us and then categorized them as essential (like safe sex) , okay for now, annoying and unacceptable (the curfew I have to be home by) and we are going to start working on them now and I think the fear of it will be really essential for this. I just found this out but T facebooked J yesterday asking him for coffee this week. J said he wouldn't be able to until next week but if there was something T wanted to talk about they could do it over facebook. I know this is a small thing but I'm feeling so happy about it. It really shows me that T *is* trying to make this work along with the discussion about the rules and him picking the ones he wanted to work on.
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