I just joined the board today, too.
Welcome! (It feels good to be part of a welcoming community, even if I'm a noob)
I'm in a relationship that's ending because of our differing views on polyamory (she wants monogamy, I'm pretty sure that I can't be happy that way) so I'm just throwing you some good vibes and hoping that all goes well with this partner you obviously love so very much.
Best to you!
Illegitimus Non Carborundum