Originally Posted by YGirl
If you're that worried about keeping secrets from each other, then use the same password, but definitely register as separate user names. That way you can see what the other person has in the private parts of their profile.
My feeling is that if you need to check each other's accounts to see if they're keeping secrets, there are some fundamental trust issues that need to be addressed. I have the password for my husband's email only so I can take care of his business when he doesn't have internet access. I never go in there to spy on him.