Originally Posted by jkelly
Incidentally, some of the other members seem to be focused on the double-standard issue. Like CielDuMatin and Ariakis, I think that it's totally possible to have completely messed-up relationships where every agreement is perfectly fair and symmetrical, and healthy ones when they aren't. On the other hand, if you notice that you have a tendency to agree to weird relationship agreements, you might in the future use a lack of symmetry as a warning sign for you.
I don't see where anyone is focused
on double-standards, it was merely pointed out by several people. Of course it is possible to not have double standards and still have an unhealthy relationship or have unhealthy aspects in an otherwise viable relationship.