Originally Posted by ksandra
I think the key is to dream without losing a sense of the reality and what is good about the real world.
there we go, that's what i agree with when i keep saying it is ok to have a dream as long as you do not deny the possibilities...
these are just humble honest opinions that i have but to paraphrase
"it is better to have dreamed and then lost than to never have dreamed at all"
as long as we keep a focus on what is really here offered to us and do not shut out the possibilities of love in reality simply because they do not fit the ideal in our dreams then i think having an ideal relationship as a dream is not harmful...
cus if i read ksandra right...its all about a healthy balance of keeping it real while still hoping for sumthing better.
because i think that what and ideal or a dream is... is a hope. and hope, is a light that rarely leads us astray...