first of all, I am so proud of you redsiren for realizing what you need and asking for it! Standing up for what you deserve and sticking by your guns is very admirable and I commend you.... good job!
as for the FWB thing, Mono and I have decided that we would best be served with calling my "friends" intimate ones.... "intimate friends" that way the "benefit" part is less like someone is using me for sex and not my friend at all. Which unfortunately has happened in the past.... of course this term is used for REAL friends and is given over time and proven friendship... not ones that start with sex and end in my heart being broken. Those days are over. I hope... I'm determined they are.
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