I akin what you are saying to loving. Being present in my love with others is really being alive and what will change the world... expressing that is essential in all forms, including sexually, but it comes from a very different place than simple fucking. of course there are many ways to live in that,,,, just actuating it to poly somehow as for me this is why and how I am poly. It goes beyond a moment into everyday life, thinking about the future, thinking about all those involved in my life and perhaps the biggest thing for me is staying in love with myself
the best love ever!
thanks for putting this in here as it is a great reminder in every area of this forum!