Originally Posted by MonoVCPHG
I honestly don't mean to judge and we all have our views of different approaches. Some work for us, some don't.
OK well I'm impressed by knowing what one's parameters are and not settling for otherwise. I've always been of the fly-by-the-seat-of-my-pants variety myself. I would do things first and then consider the ramifications.. I have mellowed somewhat with age but prob'ly not as much as i'd thought a few months ago.
Of course I'm not talking about anything ILLEGAL. The above is all within the context of personal relationships. Just so we're all clear on that point.