Given names or boyfriend depending on the person I'm talking to.
Online it's Breathes for my primary & Possibility for my secondary. I'm not overly fond of hierarchical (sp?) titles but these two terms DO cover what type of relationship they are in my life.
Breathes is a name he's used forever online & Possibility because I started calling him that online to help differentiate between the two without going primary & secondary since, to me, primary and secondary are just words with no special meaning & both of my guys are VERY special to me so I don't want to degrade them that way.