Originally Posted by GroundedSpirit
And I think this 'variation' you speak of is not really well and clearly understood. I'm going to assume (and hope) that when you say this, it's not that you are holding some measuring stick in one hand.
Grounded Spirit...no measuring stick, just an honest question to understand how others feel. I grok that love is subjective since we are not telepathic and have to rely on language to exchange thoughts.
I am driven by curiosity - its who I am - and am always curious as to how others view the world, or in this case, love in a poly world.
Thx for the comments.