To answer your question, I don't think so. One of the things that I always talk about on here is communication and how important it is. I have to agree with your hubby on this one. You didn't do anything wrong and these were her issues. I've never hidden anything from my wife OR anyone that I talk to. Everyone knows that I'm an open book, ESPECIALLY when it comes to the girls. My younger cousin said something to me yesterday and it happens to fit this. I'd rather look you in the eye and tell you the truth, then lie and have trust broken.
I'm sorry that it didn't work out with this other woman, but I think it may be for the best. Welcome and enjoy your stay here!