Originally Posted by Zenchild
Making sure my home and my family has stability comes first.
*standing o* Absolutely right. IMO the only way you can have a successful poly relationship is having the trust that your core relationship will never be affected. Our gf even said that one of the things that helped her make the decision to accept our offer to move in was that bond between my legal wife and I. It made her feel safe and she knew that she was going to be in a loving environment. Kudos Zen.