Well i won't get too detailed , because I could go on for a bit with specifics. Mainly I want someone who understands my hectic schedule, is willing to be discreet with my friends and extended family, and is willing to keep the lines of communication open. I'm pretty simple to please.
I'm very lucky to have a secondary who personifies most of these traits. We are still working on the communication thing. Sometimes I feel I have to drag him kicking and screaming into our conversations regarding anything deep & emotional.