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Old 05-19-2010, 10:50 PM
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Originally Posted by capricorny View Post
Is it OK for you if I say that what you write to me indicates you are not that much poly, even mentally?
Originally Posted by DD123 View Post
Hi! male mono here.
He never said he was poly.

Compersion is not a "natural" feeling for most people, it needs to be developed. Even for people who are wired poly, it doesn't always come naturally for compersion to be the first feeling you have when your lover is out with someone else. It's possible to be happy for someone else while at the same time being a little mournful for yourself.
Gralson: my husband (works out of town).
Auto: my girlfriend (lives with her husband Zoffee).

The most dangerous phrase in the English language is "we've always done it this way."
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