Originally Posted by DD123
Sorry but I have to say this: I get the compersion thing but I kinda feel like its BS. Yes I can be happy that shes happy, but I cant JUST be happy cuz shes happy, I want my cake and eat it too. I need to be happy too and if Im just happy for her i think thats some kind of codependency thing going on.
If you think compersion is the same as co-dependency then you don't know what compersion is. co-dependency is being unable or willing to live your life and do stuff without your partner, compersion is being happy that your partner is living their life and is enjoying their life even when you aren't there.
In fact, they are opposite it seems.