Did you say the magic word AK? *smacking* I have been known to give a good smacking sometimes.
That's why I called myself redpepper. Its all good and then comes the bite.
Seriously though, I don't think she is stupid, I do think a lot of other things though, but what's the point? She isn't interested in changing, just dealing. I have nothing to say on that. And that is fine. We all do what we need to to survive. I just prefer to thrive rather than survive and she seems to have a difference of opinion on that for herself.