My hubby sees his GF about 3 - 4 times a week, sometimes just briefly for coffee or dinner or something and 1 - 2 of those days are overnight visits.
I see my BF almost everyday, even if only for a few minutes. We both work in the same area so he often swings by my store just to say hello
I spend 1 - 2 nights per week at his place.
As of May 22nd however, my BF is moving into the suite downstairs so we will see each other alot more often! We've agreed to keep the over night visits reasonable :P It's going to feel like NRE all over again, I'm sure
It's definitely 'calming' to be able to have some contact with both of them everyday, even if it's a text or email or phone call.