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Old 05-17-2010, 08:04 PM
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Wow, that's kind of childish of him to put it too her like that. He sounds like a boy who has been told he can't play with a toy until he cleans his room. It sounds like there is still some communicating that needs to be done.

In my relationships I tell my partners what I need to hear or have conveyed as a way of being sure there is no assuming going on and that they understand what will make me feel more comfortable, loved and respected. It sounds like you did this and he twisted it to suit himself. Rather selfish it sounds like and he missed he point.

Perhaps some more discussion on what it was that made him say it like that is in order. Was he doing the whole, "fine! I will just break up with her then!" whining thing because he felt your relationship and your comfort didn't take precedent and his needs did instead? Or was there something else behind it?
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