Originally Posted by sumsumsum
Quick question for you.
Where do you think your former inability to express yourself came from?
Easiest answer ever...control. I was scared to give a piece of me that could be used to hurt me back. By controlling my emotion, I believed I was protecting myself
I learned, in retrospect, that I need to be allow myself to be open to people. Keep control of my reactions to giving that part of myself. I have to say the relief I felt in giving up a little control was incredible. A serious learning moment in this whole poly world